I am so sorry Angela. Reading your post made my heart race and my eyes fill with tears because I know the pain that you felt. No person should ever have to go through that discovery and the pain that follows.
Originally Posted By: Angela R
One ironic thing is my Divorce Remedy book is coming sometime this week. Not sure that it matters now.
When I purchased Divorce Remedy, I picked it out because I thought that the book would give me the steps to save my marriage and to "fix" H. I have since realized that this is not about fixing the M or H, it is about finding myself again. Even if you think that your M is a lost cause, the book will help you move forward for yourself and the kids.
Your H may not have even hit rock bottom yet. And he may never get there. But you can ensure that this is YOUR rock bottom. You can protect yourself so that no day in your future will be as bad as yesterday. You can do that by working on yourself, by talking your time, and by lowering your expectations so that H can no longer crush your world.
Every day will be hard and a struggle. But you have people here who will help pick you up and keep moving.
