I did find out this morning that W didn't specifically say no contact. She said she is having a hard time because she's still scared about us, and if she cuts him off she'll be losing a whole group of friends and a very good friend in him - so what if we don't work out. I told her she has to end the contact totally, but I understood everything is crazy and emotional. I also said we couldn't have any further contact until it was done - but I wasn't upset or angry.
She said she would absolutely do it, but to please pray for her. She said she doesn't love OM, and she knows she's definitely in love with me, but cares for him as a good friend, and it feels like cutting off a member of her family.
