Jon, a lot of talk about her coming around and her mental state. You also need to take it slow to see if you have made the changes you need to. The things that lead to this situation are habits and traits you have learned over many years. Though this is a traumatic event that may have helped you see that you want to change, it can be very easy to fall back into old habits.

Take it slow, not only to see that she really wants to make a better M but also so that you can ensure you are a better partner for the long run.


me: 30 XW:28
tgthr:4 m:1
no kids
BD: June 2013
D: Jan 2014