just read your post and the conversations about needing, time and space and living for himself could have been copied word for word from the ones in my house!
Even the ". ("It's time for me to be selfish." "I don't love you." "No, I will not give you another chance, you already got your last chance," etc. Ouch.
Amazing to me that the WAS always seesm to use the same reasoning. I answered your comments on my thread, thanks for that. I will take some time out how to follow through without blowing it. I start coaching tonight. I will let you know how it goes. It is tricky with no one to talk to, especially if you are trying to maintain your privacy.