I knew him taking the book was a bad idea but apart from saying it is just for me and you shouldn't read it, which would have been another problem, there wasn't a whole lot more to say.
So I printed off the 37 rules and will commit them to memory and keep them in a closed drawer! Thanks for that tip. I have noted the advice, signed up for coaching and am waiting to see what happens. He may or may not turn up this weekend but either way I will wait for him to contact me. At this stage I am making plans assuming he will be here but if not I have a plan B ready.
You are right about the marriage and it viability, when you put it that way. I can relate to your thinking, but that is not going to be a topic for conversation anyway. Right ?