Hi Bklyn,

I was thinking of you today and was so glad that you've posted on your recent development in all this madness. I'm so happy for you that you're able to see gratitude in all this from all your achievements to your little blessings.

In your list of what you don't want in a man, I wanted to include...
You want a man who is willing to reflect on his mistakes, take responsibility for his part and wants to continue working on being a better human being for his daughters, his partner and everyone that surrounds him and loves him.

I'm also so happy to know that you've kept up with your Al Anon. It has also helped me so much. Two days ago I called a member because my triggers were getting the best of me. She said, keep up with your God box, continue with your gratitude list, pray/meditate before getting out of bed, journal your thoughts, AND daily think of 2 things you can thank ExH for. You may have to pray to your higher power to help you with this given the present circumstances but it will help with the resentment. (at least it's helped me)

I'm thinking of you!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017