One thing I am so grateful for is the people on these boards....AND the fact that I'd already been detaching and working on me and using DBing principles. That does make it easier to not be so crazy right now.
Plus, I'm still reeling from the other EA...and, strange as it is, I've actually been praying that God would reveal any other affairs, issues, etc. so that I can know the whole truth about everything. I'm so tired of the lies.
When I first found this board, I was kinda upset that people told me, more than once, to expect my MLCer to be having affairs. I was like,"not my H."
This really sux and really hurts...but I'm glad I had this site. Knowledge is power.
I did lose it a little bit when I saw the pictures and confronted him....but after a bit, I regained my perspective and remembered all the advice on this site.
One ironic thing is my Divorce Remedy book is coming sometime this week. Not sure that it matters now.
And, I've done so much googling...that I have actually read a lot of the Hero Spouse stuff. I'll go back and reread. I'm not going to be getting much sleep tonight...at least, not for a bit.
