Had a 50 minute phone call with the W. It was really awkward to start. We discussed dividing up the checking account, and paying for our own expenses from here on out. She asked about money she had seen moved around which I explained adequately.
After that though, somehow we just got to talking. I asked her a couple of broad questions and she just started talking, nothing regarding relationship or M. She talked about work, I asked her about a documentary about her job that was out, and we got talking about things. Overall it went really well. There was a lot of laughing and I was grinning a lot.
I asked her if I could borrow a book she bought when we moved here, and that I had mail to give her. I asked if she wanted me to mail it to her or if we could meet up for coffee like we did 5 days after BD. She said coffee some morning sounded fine.
She just kept saying "this is weird" a few times. And mentioned that neither of us thought we would ever be in this position. I just agreed it was weird and understood why she felt/thought that.
She asked about our dog, the house, my job. I told her enough but didn't rub anything in.
It could have gone a lot worse. Still trying to have no expectations.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14