what I have heard from others is take a moment. breath. thought stop- because otherwise it will make you sick. talk to him when you are ready. if you don't want to talk to him tomorrow, then don't. give yourself a little time. I am sorry that you are going thru this. its awful I know.
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13