Thanks planet, yes too many people in our lives, just say the old "get over it". Until you have been in this position, you will never know what it is like. Even then, depending on whether you are the LBS or the WAS, as that also changes your view. I will start talking to my sons, when I get back home. I cannot and shouldn't do it over the phone. But again, I am sure I was told not to have them become involved, but maybe that was more on the asking questions, rather than just simply talking about us as a family. With regards to moving on, I think I have already reached that spot, or very close to it. Yes, there will always be some form of emotion, but I have no worrying about what things mean if she does this or doesn't do that. I have worried for ages where she is going or where she has been. And I agree, I will be alright regardless. Especially now, the home loans have been approved, in speaking with the manager. Still has to have the final ok from head office, but more a formality now.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.