Me 1 year on pt2.

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The few people I have spoken to through the church seem to fall into the category of "I have heard enough of this sitch, move on"

Yes. I understand how it feels. My best friend keeps telling me to forget my XW, giving me solutions and dismisses my wants and thoughts. Blames her too. All i wanted is someone to hear me out and certainly that person is not him.

My family is the best people to talk to. They understand what I want and actually hear me out. You may want to try this out with your sons. For all we know, your boys are probably hurting too and did not know how to reach out to you.

Moving On.
But when you are ready. You will be.
This may sound a bit hypocritical coming from me since i'm not there yet but I know 1 thing that keeps me going.
"I will be alright regardless".