HWA, are the boys working or at college? Me and my son are starting to see a college mentor. I'm going to get free counselling and I'm hoping that my son is going to open up to the mentor as he won't open up to me. Can you get counselling through work? It will be a lot better when you move as I think you said you know more people over there. I would have a heart to heart as well with your boys when you move. Even if it's just to see what they think of the sitch. I do talk to my son about the sitch, but I don't say too much in case he repeats it to his dad. I've told him that it's not his fault that we've split up and he says he knows. I remember when my parents split up, I thought it was my fault for years!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
