You're doing great Jon. I know you have counseling in the plans, please make it happen while the iron is hot. I would even say do it before moving back in together. Someone suggested Gottman based counseling, and I know Gottman's methods are backed by strong research.
My first w and I reconciled right before the holidays and that lasted until the end of January. I know everything seems great right now and you are taking it slow, but I personally would not hesitate at all on the counseling. Just my two cents.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)