Why not? You could always also see a C or another confidante like a minister.
"I have issues at times, not just issues with the sitch, general day to day ones. It hurts to not talk to people about them."
So do it. Nothing's stopping you.
"It hurts that I have to think what things I can say to my boys and what I cannot. I want to tell them how much I hurt with the sitch. But I know I cannot and should not."
Why not? Your "kids" are 20 and 18. They're adults. Just air things out with them. I'm sure they have alot to say also.
"I want to know how much it hurts them, but I have to let them talk when they are ready."
No, you have to open the door to let them see it's okay to talk to you. They probably don't want to "take sides" with you and your W. It's alright. You can do it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
