I have decided to leave XW to herself now. She have made her choice to go underground and not being truthful with herself, me and probably her family and friends. The domestic help may be the only one who knows much much more!
Am I hurt? Yes but nothing really surprises me anymore with those two. XW can deny it until kingdom comes but it isn't what it seems. She had an EA but denies it when I told her so I moved out.
Nothing can compel her to rethink her actions. Once someone is so comfortable with what one have right now, why would anyone give that up?
I immediately gave up a friendship with a girl because she made GF (XW) uncomfortable. I told XW that. She replied that I did it when we were happy, she did it because she was unhappy.
You see? Nothing will convince her otherwise. She is dead set on this relationship and she will not change her mind once she have let go of her guilt. I know her.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
