Originally Posted By: planet
My kids calling OM daddy and she's having no problem with that.


You might want to say something about that, Planet.

My mother was a WAS who engaged in an affair and married her OM. Shortly after my parents' divorce, they married fairly quickly. One day, I was over at my mother's to play with my sisters and somehow got to calling the OM "Daddy." When my own father heard that, he went ballistic and marched right to my mother's house to give her a piece of his mind on that matter. He told her in no uncertain terms that I was not to call the OM "Daddy" as he is my ONE AND ONLY Daddy. Apparently after that confrontation I never called the OM 'Daddy' ever again and called him by his name.

Kudos to my father for putting his foot down! laugh

I was about 3 at that time and their marriage didn't last long at all. Probably 2 years.

This is something you might want to think about.