She is mad at me because she had to go out and buy a car, I made her do that. Not that she is choosing to file for D. Now I make her park on the street and not in the garage, she thinks I should park my car on the street and let her have the garage. I dive a service van for work and get to drive it home, so I only need to drive my car after work hours. In ways I think this is her way of trying to control the sit and I think I'm setting a boundary.

She is also getting mad at me because I am not telling her things. Our son missed a birthday party because I didn't tell her about it, the point is I laid the invitation on top of another one. She thought it was a craft and didn't look at it, so I'm the bad person because she didn't look at it, I needed to tell her. She has not been talking to me, so I have been following the nc rule.

In ways I think this is childish, but I feel she has been acting like a spoiled kid. Her childhood was not that good, her mom married three time, is a truck driver with her husband and she felt abandoned by them. Her father (her moms first marriage) quit speaking to her and has never made contact. They live in the same town. She ended up living with her grandparents that spoiled her.

I don't know if she is mlc or if she is a waw. She could go either way.


M 47
W 38
My S 21
Her S 17
Our S 8
M 8
DB 9/5/13

"You don't know how strong you are until strength Is all you have" Bob Marley