Give yourself some time to digest this new information. You have done a lot of work on yourself, your attitude and have addressed many things you wanted to change in yourself. You have mande many of those changes and you know your husband noticed.... So whether you kick him to the curb or not you know those changes are going to serve you well.
Give yourself a little time to digest this. Do not be rash or make life changing decisions right now. I did the week i found out and have regreted it ever since. slow down. step back.
I personaly would at least have the discussion with him then be prepared to give yourself some space for a while to allow yourself time to heal.
You may come to the point that you decide you can never trust again but you may find that you can. That is a DECISION you can make later
I would rather feel pain then never feel at all... Separated 3/2012 T 34 yrs M 27 yrs
