Where am I at?

[Icecoldw]

Thanks fly on the wall,
Yes I know my marriage is over has been since she dropped the bomb. Now I think I put the nails in the coffen. We were just talking about custody, I was trying to listen and not defend myself. That didn't last very long, I got angry and told her I don't care anymore that I'm not an option, either choose me or lose me. I'm just so mad that she is just throwing all this away and then talk about how she doesn't want this to affect our son. Hello, this is going to affect him no matter what.

I also told her I'm not stupid and I'm sure the reason she wants out so fast is so she can be with the other man. She informed me that she knows a lot of woman that have walked away and there hasn't been om.

The only thing I can do is let her go. That's what I did with my first wife, I didn't know about DB and did every thing wrong and she came back in 6 mths. If I would of been more mature and had the tools I have now, I'd probably be marraired to her and all this would be a mute point. I know that every sit is different. Can't help but hope that with time my current wife will realize what we have/had.