- be careful with that. This popular notion is what often creates co-dependent relationships. Be careful of the roller coaster ride. From where I stand you seem to be already making her the center of your world and this is exactly what's driving you nuts. I know it's hard as he11, but you need to let her go.
You seem to be willing to drop anything you're doing at any moment if she comes into the picture. Can you somehow show her that you have a life of your own as well and not just waiting around for her all the time? Even if you reconcile, you both need to be able to survive on your own. She seems to have some big personal issues to work on before getting into a stable relationship, even with you.
ETC
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
