It is alimony. She will spend it as she pleases.

I am not angry. I definitely don't hate her. It's currently the other way around. It is just frustration. I really don't understand why she refuses to coparent. We have talked about this months ago and she's renegading on her promise. Its what's best for the kids if we are at peace with each other or should I say she's at peace with herself.

I just want to be involved in my kid's life. I can't be in the dark. Regarding the classes, I don't think it is inappropriate but I would appreciate some info as to where the classes are and what do they do over there. I would like to see for myself even if I couldn't pay for it. That, I believe is reasonable. Her reason is if I wouldn't pay for it then I shouldn't know about it.

I do not wish to argue with her. XW is on a mission to pick a fight with constant sniping and rudeness. Arguing for the sake of arguing.

I am aware of not having any expectations. What do I say to her when she brings up my past faults. Something like I never check my kid's message book from school but I do now. She did say I have 'woken up' too late.

She's in a new relationship with OM. I know that now for sure. She may not want to see my changes in a positive light at all.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet