PATIENCE PROMISCUITY AND PROFIDIOUSNESS

[RosaLinda]

Just checking on you to see how you're doing this morning Amba, I hope you got some rest last night. 

Amba, you have such mixed emotions right now. Anger, disgust, betrayal. 

Please please know that, despite the existence of OW, what you and your H have is real. The love and admiration he showed you yesterday is real. His pride in you as his wife. You are the one he shared his excitement with at bagging the doe. You are the the mother of his daughters, you are his reality and his future. 

Your H is a man, a flawed man. As Heather said, a man who turns to skanky women for stress relief. Who is going thru a MLC right now. MLCers all turn to these OP. It does not mean anything. It isn't real. 

Like Job said, she is a bandaid for his pain. But YOU are the real solution. He will see that after a while Amba. Think of all the support and advice you've given me on dealing with RT, and apply it here. Hang in there. You've got this covered.