Heather told me you were having a tough time of it. I'm so sorry to hear that you discovered the OW. It [censored]. It beyond [censored]. I wish I could tell you something to make it better but I can't. These are your feelings. Feel them. Embrace them. Get it out. As my counselor says "if you don't deal with your feelings they will deal with you."
Just know you will be okay. You feel like you failed but it's not about you. They are messed up. Like big teenagers. Get yourself strong. Concentrate on yourself and the kids if they need you. Leave him in God's hands.
Like you my H denied and lied and just when I thought things were gonna be okay the rug was pulled out from under me. Read my sitch and you will see what I mean.
Right now just breathe. Get that anger out in a healthy way. Don't expect anything from him. He is focused on himself. He won't listen so don't waste your breath, but don't drop any boundaries.
Hang in there.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
