Hey Nero, you know I have learned to forgive myself for things int the past. Things I've said, things I may have done or didnt do. And the reason I do is because I know I did the best I could at the time. Had I known better, I would have done better.
I like to believe that all the bad stuff that's happened to me most of my life wasnt because of some great master plan. That would suckk for me, right?
So, I think life is a mix of things. Sometimes stuff just happens. No real reason for it. And other times, I think, they happen for a reason. Either way, I try to figure out how best to handle it. If I can learn something from it, great. If not, that's ok, too.
Because the way I figure it, making myself crazy trying to sort it all out or understand it isnt going to change it. So, might as well just accept what is and deal with it as best I can.
I agree with you, that life presents things to us, but we have to be ready to see them in order to move on them.
I just try to do the best I can. Try to see things in a positive light even when life keeps throwing me curve balls.
Hey, I am not out til I say I am. So, I plan on just trying to catch whatever is thrown my way.
At least that's my plan. Who knows what may really happen. LOL!