Ah, T, you sound good. You have done the work. That is clear. You know this journey should never end. We should continue to look inside and make changes as needed. .
I agree with Job, I think your w got spooked at the IC. Maybe touched a nerve she isnt ready to deal with now. Hope she changes her mind on going back. I think she really needs to.
And I agree with you. No one needs another person. I dont want to feel needed. I want to feel wanted, useful. There is a difference.
I think that your wife is making her way out. In her own time, her own way.
You are doing exactly what you should be doing. Good on you.
