My H said "I don't like you!" and gave me his list of grievances before he left. No mention of D, although now he's full force ahead, but I never got the ILYBNILY either. Mine continues to hide from most, not all, people. Actually, it's his old friends and his family (whom he couldn't stand) that he sees now. Oh, and people from his work. No one that truly knows the difference of what he says and reality.
Try doing one small thing a day just for you.
take care
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR