Oh Amba, I'm so sorry. But believe me, as everyone said, the OW means nothing. A bandaid. Doesn't make it hurt less, but with understanding, you can make a rational decision how you want to handle it. It does not diminish the true love that H for you, it's just uried behind the MLC slop right now Are you okay?

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17