Ok, I would do as Wonka and job suggested, they are right on...affairs are to mlc like butter is to toast (can't remember who said that but it is so true).
Remember,the affair means nothing, just a band-aid, two broken people. In my sitch, W had quite the affair machine going, PA, EA's, cyber boy toys...she was a busy girl!! or is that cougar?? I forget....
So about the SUV...let him continue to use it, think of it as trade for the freezer of venison (yum!!!!). This is YOUR time to shine, to show the new you, that you are first class stuff. You are the bigger, calmer, peaceful person. You are above it, right?
I can tell you that you will get better, you will get past the A, if you choose. It's totally up to you, but I will say I am glad I let W's activities go.
You can do this!! T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
