WR, Sorry to hear about the weather. Hopefully it will not rain the entire time.
I hope you don't mind me pointing something out to you, but you need to back off a bit w/your son. You asked him what made him phone is dad and then what did they talk about. This kind of puts him in a spot because he may feel like he's caught in between the two of you. I know you are concerned about him, but I would allow him to come to you if he wishes to tell you about his conversation w/his father.
As for rH situation, each and every situation will be different. She and her husband are not out of the woods just yet. They still have a few more bumps in the road to overcome and they will in time. I advise everyone not to get discouraged because there is a reason for each and everything that happens in this world...we just aren't told the why's, what ifs, etc. No one knows how their situation will play out and even if you are divorced, there is always a chance that things could settle down in a year or two and he may want to try to reconcile w/you. But, keep in mind, you will be the one to determine if that is what you want to do.
For now, I would try to stay positive and enjoy the time you spend w/your sons as much as possible. The holidays are coming and it may be difficult for them this year since their father is out on the street. As for your h being angry, he's got to be that way in order to justify why he needs to divorce you. If he can't justify why he's doing the things he's doing, that would be admitting he's the problem. Try not to take his anger personally because he's angry at himself and the entire universe.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
