Guess I belong here now...

[RosaLinda]

Hi SweetRed, how are you doing? How is school going? How is that ss of yours doing? Did you have fun on Halloween?

I do not agree with your statement: "there will never be any possibility of getting back together as a couple if I don't more fully remove myself from his life. He needs to truly miss having me in his life before he'll realize what he's letting go."

I am more of the mind set that people need to see each other to re-connect. I know this is not the popular opinion, but you guys are already divorced, don't you think that is separation enough? I think you said that you had tried LRT last year - did it help you, bring xH closer? I cannot remember, sorry. Also, please feel free to disregard my advice, because as you know, I am not doing real well in my own sitch, so should not be telling you what to do, sorry

What happened between the two of you on Halloween?