I definitely believe you, Cadet. I need to keep reminding myself this fact. The weird thing about my situation is that my H just up and left and didnt tell me anything. All he told me is that he "needed to be on his own for a while". He didnt give me the ILYB speech and he didnt say anything about a divorce or legal separation. He just up and vanished after giving me a list of things that bothered him. The fact that he is in complete hiding from friends and family leads me to believe its definitely a MLC.
Me: 31 H: 32 Married 10 years, together 11 No kids H moved out to an apt 8-3-13
Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis
