"when you talk about detaching and having zero expectations. How do you do that while holding out hope for the relationship."
By separating the two. It's like when you have a neighbor that you care about. You don't do anything to control them and you care about them, but you just hope for the best and not really think about your relationship to them.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.