I Believe it Cause I Feel It

[RosaLinda]

Hi Rose! Hope you're having an okay weekend. It must be so hard for you. I read what you wrote on Heather's thread:

"It's been 7 months since BD for me, and he's full force divorce court on me.....can't divorce me fast enough. Maybe, for me, it's all the MLC crazy and the lawyers that is making me wonder how you ladies have done it for so long. I hate opening my emails for fear of an email from my lawyer telling me some other thing H wants or is accusing me of that makes me wish it was just all over with already."

This must be such a difficult time for you. Especially with all of your financial problems, all of your H's crazy complaints, your crazy SIL, and all. But have you ever read reachingHigher's threads? Her H was gung ho on divorcing her too. He just could not get the papers filed fast enough. They even went to court and everything, and the papers were ready to be signed a day or two after Christmas. I think rH had really given up on DBing. But just as "D day" came around, her H said he wanted to delay signing for a month or two. That was last December, and they are reconciling now. I'm sorry if you already knew rH's sitch, but I find it so inspiring. So full of hope. This is my prayer for your sitch Rose. I have heard of people who get back together even after divorce. I guess what I mean is, never give up. I'm trying to follow that advice too.

Rose, I was thinking, your GP could request a copy of the report from that the doctor your saw S14 5 years ago. That's a great bunch of advice Job had about playing the games with him. Maybe you being "killed" will be good for his ego And if he likes cooking, how about watching the cooking channel together? Or actually asking him to help you make dinner?