Agreed. He will, having read the book, even see loving detachment and giving space as tactics to get him back.
Insisting on your viewpoint about the marriage ("i'm right you're wrong") is disrespecting and uncaring...that is how it reads to him. It's more of the same and more of what he's trying to get away from.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.