About the classes, are they recreational classes (sorry I only read a couple of pages back)or is this a preschool? Are you paying for any of it? I saw you said W asked you to pay half-I don't know what your financial agreement is.

Were you involved in these types of things before? If not, it may take your W time to get over the incredulity of you wanting to be so involved now.

The staring thing, you're right, it's childish. Turn away and go about your business. You only control you, your W can do whatever she wants but you should be able to control you in those moments.

About D4, she's hurting and the reason doesn't matter, show her your love in nonthreatening was that she is comfortable with. Dragging her to the car wouldn't be one of those.

Accept where you are in this and make the best of it. There is no winning here.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss