Hi Nero! Hey did you see the sunset yesterday? Fabulously breath taking! I'm glad you are, as you say, "not dead yet" and it made me feel glad to be alive!

You are such a nice person. Just the thought of you sadly remembering advice you have given people, without really understanding all that they are going thru, makes me want to hug you Nero! We can never truly know another person, I dont' think. I don't think we can ever even truly know ourselves. I say a lot of things before thinking them out first At least I used to blurt stuff out, MLC has helped me in this, getting used to STFU with my H and it carries over into the rest of my life, you know?

I know what you mean though. I have thought someone nasty or cold, and then learned about something they were going thru, and it made me feel like crap for being judgmental. Even RT, who could blame her for wanting to escape the hell hole she lives in? Of course, she could go about it a different way, but her reality is what my H has told her about our relationship, and her dreams.

You keep thinking positive my friend! Maybe we'll move to England together. Or at least visit together. With our Hs, now wouldn't that be fun!


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17