Hi, interesting to spend time with your xh. I wonder about the money thing - if when you are little you are deprived of the love that your parents (or parent) gives to you - then you latch on to other things (like money) as important, because you can rely on them?
Maybe they value it like we value love and friendship because it is safe. Don't know.
Hope he is finally waking up but selfishly a little bit of me will miss the cuckoo!! LOL
