And one other thing that was really hard for me to "get"...

She wasn't doing this with the intention of hurting me. It's really her stuff, her journey.

I didn't ask for it, but I got my own journey, and you have yours as well.

Make the most of it, what kind of man, human, are you going to be, for you, and your kids?

smile

In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm