Thanks wr. Yes I didn't want this guy I spoke to. to be my H but I was so astounded that someone got it. ah well, my H is who he is. Miracles can happen, so I've been told.
Anyhoo, I went out with some old friend tonight had drinks and chatted about old memories and stuff. My H had sent a text earlier in the day letting me know he was taking my S to this Halloween thing at his karate school. He said he would take him and pick him up, fyi and then didn't know if I was going out to happy hour? For some reason I chose not to answer this one, at all. Let him guess a little. It was a fun time with some friends I really missed and had pushed away from during my depression. They were all very understanding so it was nice to feel loved.
Then I came home about 7 and lo and behold H is still there, sitting on the couch eating a bowl of ice cream. Why, my goodness he had plenty of free time to go see AW, why was he still at home? Hmmmmm? I didn't ask because I didn't really care. He said hi how are you as I came in but I didn't hear it because I made a beeline for the bathroom first.
Then I came out and he said you must not have heard me. I said oh did you say something? He said yeah, I asked how you were. I said Oh, I'm fine! Then I went into the kitchen and got a water bottle then headed straight upstairs to my room, to go dim.
Weird that he was at home when he had opportunity to do other stuff. Does that sound like a guy who wants to separate, leave his W? Pffffft, who knows, lol. I don't really care right now. Wine does that for you.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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