Living on a roller coaster

[CallaghanClown]

Nervous about tomorrow's visitation with the kids. Don't know how to dissuade him from taking the kids in the car (his preferred verbal use of suicide avenue). It's his first alone visit outside of the home.

Plus he's very angry with me because he missed his time with the kids due to work and wasn't happy we weren't available at hs beck and call to rearrange. I need to discuss this with him. Any advice?