One other thing, is that for my W, go go from sweet, loving, nicest woman, devoted Mom, I knew to some complete mean stranger, doing things she would never do, ignoring her kids, etc over a couple months time frame told me that something was horribly wrong. It is completely illogical for that to happen, that it wasn't just a choice she chose one day out of nowhere. It had to have some basis, some reason, driving it.
There was the co-incidental thing about both times of entering replay (2009 and 2011) she had come up on a max dose of a particular AD, which I've seen forums on the web devoted to this sort of thing by people on it, or rather, their spouses and families.
People just don't flip like that on a chosen whim, you know? I wanted to try to get her to have an MRI to see if there was a brain tumor or something...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
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