Can you clarify what you mean by a warning shot? Even though she hasn't left yet, I think it has more to do with her wanting to find a job and be self-sufficient first. We haven't had a physical relationship since July (not even non-sexual affection).
In terms of escape, I have identified some "normal" but still unhealthy in context means of escape like activities with the kids, and eating. And then there is the unhealthy and immoral succumbing to online escape which, although being occasional and not on an addictive level, I know I have used it to escape. Of course, that brings shame and false intimacy.
_________________________ Me: 37 W: 37 M: 11 D:5 S:2 IDLYA, W removed rings, BD 07/13 EA/Fantasy (PA?) confirmed 12/13 W moved out 05/14
