wow- interesting look at mlc from other side. i wonder if my h could ever bring himself to fess up and acknowledge his "part".
idk- it was such the habit of a lifetime trusting & respecting him. it's become such a sad little ratty habit now to cover up and stay "detached" as i can get- not having any assumptions or displaying any overt affection, etc.
when whoever was saying in mach's post that they had actually just forgotten any good stuff about the m - i can absolutely believe it. i could see h when he talked and he believed what he was saying - and i'm sure in his head it sounded really logical. im sure to anyone hemay have "explained" to - it sounded/sounds? perfectly logical... it was just nutty to me, who else would know the truth but me???
he's toned down alot- the past three-two-five years have been worst of my life- i guess we'll see where it all ends up. .
anyway- yeah linda- you're rite. another day-week, month- i guess we can do it til we fall over... wierd to hear such a "voice" from beyond the great divide..
