LOL, I got that term from a guy here at work. He coached me through my sitch a couple of years ago. About five years ago, he went through pretty much the same thing I went through, and that you are going through now.

That was his advice to me from time to time. Sometimes when we talk outside the office, we talk like college frat boys. lol

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012