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Because she is getting sex from a guy who because of his youth, offers her the one thing I cannot - youth and youthful virility. It thus wounds my pride.


- Ego

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Because she is demeaning herself, for a momentary pleasure. And it is a very guilty pleasure. If she ever recovers from this, she will have to deal with it. Since I am aware of it, I must eventually share that I know. It makes any possible reconciliation less likely, and more arduous.


- Yes, it is hers. The rest is completely YOUR CHOICE

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It is different because she is doing it to indulge in a fountain of youth sex fantasy with a college student. This is not a healthy fantasy to indulge in. This guy is probably not trustworthy. What kid is? He is gonna brag. It is likely he is sharing the photos with his friends. It is likely he is telling them about her. He works in the same building as her.


A lot of speculation there. Also, a fantasy of boinking a college chick has never, ever crossed your mind? Again, fantasy, not actually doing it, but just the fantasy part? Really? And a man our age with a 24 year old woman is wrong as well, right?

Just checking...


In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm