I agree AS If you think that she would appreciate the email then send it onto her, but make sure it's what she will genuinely need and not what YOU think she needs. I've found that going dark doesn't help the sitch either, unless it's called for like my H being an a***. I got to the stage where I wasn't ringing him up for anything, not even to tell him that he's got some post. I've found that was a big mistake and just annoyed my H instead of it achieving what I wanted it to achieve. I think it did make things worse between us. That's not to say that you should start being over the top about it, remember don't scare the squirrel
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
If you think that she would appreciate the email then send it onto her, but make sure it's what she will genuinely need and not what YOU think she needs. 
