Ditto for me what Job said.

I know your tendency here is to rescue her but it will continue a dynamic that is unhealthy for both of you.

She will learn she can DEPEND on you for things she should take responsibility for.

Why would you pay for her accident?

So she will see what a nice compassionate guy you are and take you back?

What if she doesn't do you want your money back?

I am going to point out something else

You mentioned you believe that these mishaps of hers are connected to some higher power as a result of her leaving you?

I'm not here to argue religion with you but that seems to me to be a bit judgmental and self righteous.

Why do you believe this?

More importantly what do you think she would say if she read that?

Would she agree with that?


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am