I'd take some time to decide what YOU really want, and what led you to this predicament.
You just said 36 hours ago that you were DONE DONE DONE, and pretty much gave us your swan song that you were done posting here.
It may be comfortable to just rush back into the R and dismiss this as a fight that got out of hand, but that would be the worst thing you can do at this point. Something is fundamentally wrong in the relationship, so if you want to reconcile, you need to fix what got you here.
And I'd be weary of her words for now. Not to cast any doubt, but who's to say OM dumped her after the Sunday encounter and that she's left without a life boat.
Time heals and time also reveals the truth.
Good luck.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
