Why aren't you proactive in making these decisions about your children? Tell your W that you would like more information about the program she wants to change them to and will let her know if it's good. Start making the decisions without your W.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.