Hi Dawn and wow. I don't think I could handle h giving ow money either. My h bought ow things but that was before I knew what was going on. I think with my kids knowing things now too it will be harder for him to do that. But, to flat out TELL you he needs to do this is where I would have a huge problem.
It amazes me how they don't realize that other people know, as in our kids, what is going on. I do think thought that your son doesn't want you to d because it does affect them tremendously. I wish our h's realized how much this whole situation affects our kids, no matter how old they are. In fact, they say it affects the older ones even more.
Good luck to you Dawn. However you want it to turn out. Maybe this is what he needs to realize things.
M 48 H 50 M 25 T 27 D 20,18,15 6/11 H filed 3/12 H dropped 4/12 H moved out